NOT! I've been involved with two guys now, a minute out of their divorces, that seem to still be connected at the hip to their exes! I don't get it? I don't give second chances. You hurt me your done. I realize that kids add an element of connection, but to get back together? Forgiveness is hard for me on many levels, but I still don't get the we're divorced but I will take you back and the bad times won't exsist? I will always love Wes, after 18 years I don't know how I couldn't, but it's a different love and not the love you have when your married and spending the rest of your life with someone!
My new rule is no dating a guy that's had a break up unless its 6 months out...a year even better. I just can't compete with a memory! AND I don't feel I should continue to be the one that gets them through the "tough times I've been there it gets better" phase to be dumped when everything is going great and they don't need a nurse maid anymore!
Are there any normal, good guys out there?
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